On Saturday a lot of ladies do pack their bags that's if they didn't arrive Friday night. Bags are loaded with a lot of stuff like their makeup mini box, head net, extra pants and so forth heading to a man’s house. To begin with, they'll start from his toilet & clean the whole house after which they'll cook, and they’ll make the bed, go into the shower and give him the intimacy of his life. All because he can afford the bills, you now turn yourself to a relationship slave.
Maybe it's even out of the abundance of the kindness in your heart you doing everything within your power to be the best of wife material so he'll have no reason to look outside or doubt not to marry you but some guys have really grown to be selfish & wicked.
When you have a guy who's got cash and is doing well financially, as a lady even if you don't have the courage fake it, tell him you'll teach him how to do his cleanings himself, he will respect you more. Don’t be running there every weekend to service him for free with the disguise that he'll marry you eventually, look back to those you've been doing that for, how many have come true with those promises. Have a little sense of dignity and politely teach that lazy boyfriend of yours how to take care of things around the house.
Loving your spouse doesn't mean you'll wake up every morning excited to be and to see your spouse. The reality of marriage is that some days you wake up and look at your spouse and wonder what you were thinking when married him or her. Disappointments are real in marriage. Hurts are unavoidable in marriage. But true love is shown by the way you treat your spouse in moments when he or she least deserves it. It is when you decide to treat him or her with respect and courtesy even when you're disappointed with him or her