Photo/reap.comFalling out of love while your still in a relationship could be the hardest thing to do. Whatsoever your reasons are, am sure there is something inside you that keeps on hoping that he will change, start walking his talk since but at the same time you have had enough of the lies and think that its probably best to expect the worst but keep on hoping for the best.

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Teaching your heart not to love is not as easy as it may seem to be at that moment when you are angry at him for doing what he did. However ,you can always start moving on while you are still with him, here are a few ways to;

•    Do not call him or text him as much as you used to do before. Wait for him to make effort to call you if he really is willing to change and to keep you. He will notice something is up and try make amends otherwise ,try and stop being attached to him.

•    You might want to change your wallpaper and put anything else other than him on it.It does not sound as much but you will notice the change this little step can do.Save him by his names, not the pet names you are used to.

•    Lastly, distract your self from thinking about him, think of something else other than the memories you share with him. Probably find a new hobby that you can focus your energy into, you will find yourself loving you more than you did before.It may seem like life is unfair but you are not the first nor the last to go through it so Grow through it dear lady.