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Breakups are hard and emotionally draining to many people. It is always advisable to stay positive. Here are  some of the things you should never do in order to go through a break up.

Excessive partying. Drowning your sorrows to get over a breakup is the greatest mistake you can do because it hinders yourself from grieving and not working on yourself  which can cost you. It might affect your next relationship.

Feel the pain.To get over a breakup allow yourself to feel the hurt and go through the painful process because it will help you move on.

Don't seek revenge. Never seek revenge on your ex like spreading rumors  , burning stuff  or taking the issue on social media. Seeking revenge will   prevent you from feeling the pain.  

Don’t stalk him or her on social media. It is advisable to unfollow your ex from all social media platforms even his family and friends, it will help you resist the temptation of checking what they are up do and how life is on their side which in the end will help you stop comparing your current situation from theirs.