A couple embraces. [Photo: BET]
If you ask any single person they have an elaborate list of their best suit partner.
This may not be documented but well internalised. In some cases, they may go ahead and share such with their friends and family.
Men are known to be visual beings. In this regards, they highlight visible features of their potential spouses. Skin complexion and body symmetry are major points of interest by men in women. Most men may, therefore, shun potential lovers simply because of not possessing their expected looks.
This has been said as the major reason why most men remain single longer than they would wish.
On the other hand, ladies have their preferences too. They may be more concerned with overall qualities of a man. Such may include the general character as well as the appearance of a man.
A girl may like a man's appearance but hates his character. This may always put them in a dilemma when choosing the love of their life.
My advice to all singles is that your dream partner will never be your real spouse. You must leave the dreamland and come back to reality. Forget the imaginary partner. Take the one who you seem to share most things and get along easily with.
They may not look exactly as you had earlier imagined but if you will be surprised when you learn who they really are. Concentrate on their strengths and openly communicate how you feel and what you want.
Otherwise, you may wait forever to get yourself a tailor-made girlfriend or boyfriend.